In Chicago, soccer is more than a sport — it’s a passion, a way for kids to stay active and a launchpad for lifelong skills. But one of the most important factors in a child’s soccer journey is the person guiding them on the field. So, what makes a good youth soccer coach — especially for families in Chicago looking to maximize their child’s experience?
Thomas Cahue, Director of Coaching at Paris Saint-Germain Academy Chicago, has the answer. With decades of experience both playing and coaching, he knows what it takes to nurture players in a way that leads to growth — in skill, confidence and character.
PSG Academy Chicago is part of the prestigious international Paris Saint-Germain network, with access to elite methodology, global training opportunities and a deep commitment to player development. Whether a child is just starting out or dreaming of playing professionally, PSG offers a structure that supports every stage of the journey.
It starts with experience — and empathy
When thinking about how to find a youth soccer coach who will truly connect with kids, start with their background and mindset.
“When we hire coaches, we look for people who are already involved in the sport,” says Cahue. “Whether that’s through playing or coaching, they need to understand the game and the environment.”
But being skilled on the field isn’t enough. Cahue says the best coaches go beyond drills and tactics — they’re mentors. “They should be someone who understands where a kid is coming from, emotionally and socially, and how to support them.”
Communication is key
A great coach doesn’t just talk — they listen. Cahue says setting clear expectations with players and parents from day one is critical. “This is what you can expect from me, and this is what I’ll expect from your child,” he says. That kind of upfront clarity builds trust.
Parents should also feel confident that coaches are approachable. “If a child is off their game, we notice,” says Cahue. “We check in. Sometimes there’s something going on at home or school, and that touchpoint makes a big difference.”
Wondering how to choose a youth soccer coach in your area?
Start by watching a session — and look for structure, not chaos.
“Every PSG session follows a structure,” Cahue explains. “We start with an activation game, then technical drills with lots of touches on the ball, then we move into decision-making games and finally an evaluation.”
He notes that each child should be constantly involved — not standing in line waiting for a turn. “You need repetition. The ratio should be two or three kids per ball, not one ball for a whole team.”
What you should know about certifications
While coaching certifications aren’t the only measure of quality, Cahue says they show a coach’s willingness to learn and grow.
In the U.S., coaches begin with grassroots-level certification and progress through a tiered system: D, C, B, A Youth and Pro licenses. Advancement between levels takes time and practical experience — often six months to two years between stages — allowing coaches to absorb and apply new knowledge.
Europe’s UEFA licensing system uses a similar A–B–C structure, and some coaches hold credentials from both systems.
“We help our coaches understand not just PSG methodology, but how to navigate the licensing process,” says Cahue.
So while a coach without top-tier credentials may still be excellent, a pattern of avoiding formal training altogether could be worth a second look. For Chicago parents wondering how to choose a qualified soccer coach, it’s worth asking about both credentials and practical coaching style.
Red flags to watch for
Not all coaching is created equal. According to Cahue, parents should be cautious if:
- Sessions lack structure and variety
- Coaches focus only on physical fitness
- Communication with families is minimal or reactive
- Players are told what to do but not taught why
“Kids need to be part of the process,” he says. “If they can’t explain what they’re doing or why, they’re just following instructions — not learning.”
Support your child’s journey
Ultimately, Cahue believes a great coach creates the right environment — one that supports development, fosters confidence and keeps soccer fun. “If a coach brings the right environment, your child will grow,” he says. “It’s about so much more than the game.”
In Chicago’s competitive youth soccer landscape, finding the right coach can make all the difference in your child’s success and enjoyment of the game.
This content is sponsored by Paris Saint-Germain Academy Chicago. Learn more about PSG at psgacademychicago.com.