I would tell my husband what I did and how sorry I am. I would also then tell the people I blabbed it to that I was off-base and to please let it stop there. Then I wouldn't expect my husband to be too happy with me for a while because of the trust that I broke. Knowing I broke trust would be enough of a punishment for me. Just thinking about it makes me squirm!
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