"It Shoudda Been Me" and "Have You Seen My Daddy?"
As a longtime physician in a community health
clinic on Chicago's South Side, Doriane Miller says she began
seeing a disturbing trait among her young patients.
Many of them had either been victims of gunfire or knew
someone who had been shot.
The impact she saw was devastating.
Children growing up and living in poverty-stricken
neighborhoods in the third-largest U.S. city were exhibiting signs
of post-traumatic stress disorder-not unlike combat veterans
fighting wars thousands of miles away.
"One would think that being shot would be a significant,
life-changing event," Miller says. But what has become too common
in some of the city's hardest-hit areas also has gone a long way in
normalizing what many others would consider anomalous in their
"I've had patients brush it off," she says.
Still, victims of violent crime struggle to fully recover and
younger crime victims fall behind in school and engage in risky
behaviors, like unprotected sex and drug and alcohol abuse.
After receiving a grant in 2010 to organize health
seminars on the topic, Miller wrote a play, "It Shoudda Been Me,"
which follows a fictional character, DeShawn, after his friend is
killed in a drive-by.
Tiombe Eiland, a retired CPS teacher who now is working in
a Catholic school in the Roseland neighborhood, says the play has
had a major impact on her students.
Many students related to the play's main character and,
much to Eiland's surprise, bared their
"They would open up in front of adults and in front of
other students that they didn't necessarily know," she
"It Shoudda Been Me" is being presented in collaboration
with the University of Chicago Urban Health Initiative and will be
performed by the youth theater at Chicago's eta Creative Arts
Foundation, located at 7558 S. South Chicago Ave.
The youth theater also is premiering "Have You Seen My
Daddy?" a musical that chronicles the impact of a single-parent
Written and directed by eta's artistic director, Runako
Jahi, the performance premieres Dec. 26 and runs through June
Inspired by his work with teenagers during his weekly
Saturday theater workshop, Jahi set out to write an episodic
musical that tackles major urban issues borne from fatherless
But from a "sense of hopelessness," Jahi says, "you can
survive regardless of the situation you're in. ...
This play is to benefit young people by not preaching at
them, but by showing examples of different situations."
General admission tickets are $6 for adults and children
and $5 for groups of 25 or more. For reservations, call (773)
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