We made a ton of mistakes, but luckily nothing too awful. I
remember the first couple of nights when my in-laws left us to be
with our son for the first time. We both looked at each other and
said: "Are you as scared as I am?" I think any new parent is going
to be scared a little bit. I think we remain a little scared for
the rest of our lives because we want our children never to get
hurt or do anything wrong, that's why we get on these, "No, don't
do that!" or "Stop jumping on that!" I think you have to allow the
notion that no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to
completely protect them. It gets a tad bit easier when you start to
have more children.
It was a surreal feeling, driving home from the hospital with my
new family. I was able to take some time from work and other daily
responsibilities. This was a good thing, because sleep was not in
the cards for a while. I think my biggest mistake was anticipating
that during paternity leave, I'd have all this time to catch up on
projects and DVRed shows.
I remember that first night home with Leo. We put him to bed
around 9 p.m. and thought, "OK, we will see you in the morning!"
Yeah right! He was up every hour, on the hour, blaring. We fed him,
changed him and rocked him, the whole nine yards. We were spent. At
some ungodly hour, I woke up to Leo crying. His diaper was around
his ankles. I remember yelling to Pascale, "What kind of half-a#%
parenting is this?!" Needless to say, we got the hang of it.