Romi Lassally was exhausted. The youngest of her three kids had
been throwing up all night. The last time it happened, the puke hit
the floor and Lassally was just too tired to do anything about it.
She put Owen back to bed and climbed into bed herself, hoping the
dog would eat it and she wouldn't have to clean up the mess in the
A few days later, Lassally confessed her bad mom moment to a
friend and was amazed at the response she got. Yes, her friend was
disgusted, but also amused. And she had her own litany of bad mommy
"It was great to admit to my flawed parenting-a big parenting
don't," Lassally says. "What I got back was, oh my God, I've
thought of that. It opened the floodgates with this one
Lassally figured if she and her close pals found it cathartic to
"confess," then plenty of other moms would too. She created truemomconfessions.com, where
parents can confess their less-than-perfect life or click the "me
too" button if they've felt, or acted, the same way.
"It's just refreshing and comforting to know that, on a hard
day, you're just not alone," she says. "And just when you think
you're being the biggest mom hypocrite, someone else is doing the
same thing or even topping you."
Recently Lassally compiled some of her favorite confessions into
a book, True Mom Confessions: Real Moms Get Real. Here are a few
Liz DeCarlo is the senior editor at Chicago Parent.
See more of Liz's stories here.
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