Times change for lesbian mom of two

 
 

By Liz DeCarlo

Senior Editor
 

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Kelly Fondow of Oak Park has two daughters, separated by 14 years and changing times. Fondow was a college student with a 1-year-old daughter, Grace, when she realized she was ready to come out as a lesbian.

"The interesting thing was, there was just not a whole lot of gay families, certainly not in their early 20s like me," Fondow says of that time in the early 1990s.

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Kelly Fondow and RoiAnn Phillips with Grace, 19, and Eva, 5.

She decided the best way to raise her child was to be open about who they were as a family. "It was my responsibility to be out and open and pave the way for her, so that if someone was going to have a reaction, they'd have that reaction with me first," she says.

Now 19, Grace became a big sister when Fondow and her partner RoiAnn Phillips adopted Eva, now 5, from Guatemala.

"There was a big difference between when Grace was this age and Eva. What Eva has as an advantage is that there are other kids in her class with same-sex parents," Fondow says. "Grace was a bit of a groundbreaker and she knew that."

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