4 Make time for each other
In case finding time for yourself isn't hard enough, you also have to worry about finding time to spend with your partner. Get a babysitter or a family member to watch the twins even if just for an hour. Or, if money is tight, put the twins into a stroller and go for a walk with your partner around the neighborhood.
Or, sleep together. As in go to bed at the same time, just like you did when you were first married, before your life was dictated by the feeding, napping and changing schedules of two babies. Cuddling and passing out together can be a beautiful thing.