"To wait before speaking is the most important thing I’ve learned with my kids," Nylander says. "Because otherwise what they hear is just the anger and they won’t receive the message you want them to learn. Any message given in anger isn’t the message you want them to hear."
Liz DeCarlo is a writer who lives in Darien with her husband and three children.
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