Wednesday, September 01, 2004
You're beautiful on the inside Help your child shrug off bullies' teasing :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
Traditionally the start of school means back to books, but for some children it also means back to bullies. So we asked readers for advice on how they help their children cope with teasing. Here is what you had to say:
To help my kids to be good friends with others, I tell them that it's what's on the inside that counts. “Beauty” comes from being friendly and nice. I tell them not to worry about what others think. I tell them to make friends with children who look as though they feel left out.
If they do get bullied, I tell them to get in on the joking themselves. For example, if someone laughs at their pants because they've grown and their pants are short, they could chuckle and say, “Yeah, these pants are so short! It looks like I'm expecting a flood!” It will take the wind out of their fire. Becky of Elgin, mom of Megan, 9, and Nicole, 7
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