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Young Children's Books with a Great Message


Cathy Cassani Adams
The Self-Aware Parent

Tuesday, March 02, 2010

We have so many wonderful children's books in our house, but these books stand out because they are picked so frequently and because of their deep and touching message.  These books encourage meaningful discussion in our family and they teach lessons that go beyond childhood.

1.         The Little Bit Scary People - by Emily Jenkins

The little girl in this book notices "scary" people throughout her day, but also realizes that they are more than what she sees.  They have lives, loves and interests just like her.  This book can open conversations about people who look a little different or act a little different, and it demonstrates that people are not one dimensional.

Favorite quote, "The girl in my science class eats bits of her pencil and mutters to herself as if no one was listening.  She's a little bit scary.  But I bet she is learning to ride a bike after school and her mom runs beside her in case she loses her balance."

2.         Incredible You and Unstoppable Me - by Wayne Dyer

Both of these books offer easy to understand and beautifully illustrated examples of Dr. Dyer's positive message and life lessons.  The books remind children that they are exactly who they are supposed to be and that they have the ability to deal with any situation.  They remind parents, too.

Favorite quote - "Rely on yourself and be true to who you are.  What's unique about you is what will take you far.  Don't look to others to say you're okay.  You know it - so believe it!  Show your own self the way."

3.         Red is Best - by Kathy Stinson

Kelly loves red because it makes her feel good.  She is not worried about what matches or what other people think, she loves red because of the way it makes her feel.  I think about Kelly whenever my daughters insist on an outfit that doesn't match or plead for a specific bowl or cup.  It can be frustrating, but the book reminds me that they are chasing a feeling.

Favorite quote - "I like my red barrettes the best.  My mom says you wear pink barrettes with a pink dress.  But my red barrettes make my hair laugh.  I like my red barrettes the best."

4.         Ferdinand - by Munro Leaf

Ferdinand doesn't want to be like the other bulls and fight.  He would rather sit under the tree and enjoy the smell of the flowers.  Ferdinand knows who he is and finds joy in the simple pleasures.  And his wise mother steps back, loves, and allows.

Favorite quote - "Ferdinand's mother saw that he was not lonesome, and because she was an understanding mother, she let him just sit there and be happy."

5.         Hush Little Baby - by Sylvia Long

Different than the original song, this book is not about mama buying baby things, it's about showing baby all the beautiful things in the world.  She teaches baby that everything we need is already in nature, inside of us, or within a loving relationship.  My husband knows this one by heart - it's a common request before bedtime.

Favorite quote - "….mama's going to search for a shooting star, and if that star should drop from view, mama's going to read a book with you, and if that story has been read, mama's going to bring your warm bedspread…."

Click here to find these books (and many others) on the recommended reading page of my website.

Do you have a favorite children's book with a great message?  Feel free to comment.

Comments - Click here to post a comment

"mom"

By Connie Anderson on Friday, March 05, 2010

Two of my very favorite books as a child were Golden Books, Two Little Gardeners and Home for a Bunny. When my son was little, I found both books on the internet and read them to him. One of us cried all the way through each book.

"Sam Katz on the Loose"

By shayne adams on Friday, March 05, 2010

It's the best! It's colorful and cute. Every page takes you to a different place with a cat named Sam Katz. It's bright colors, fun rhymes and cool destinations from the amusement park, to the beach, to space, to the jungle, are really fun. It's stimulating for the imagination, more so than having a significant message. A cat that goes to all these places and then ends up back in his Brooklyn apartment is sort of cool and fun before bed though. Check it out.

"2 books"

By Linda PetersenSmith on Friday, March 05, 2010

The Paper Bag Princess, I carry a mini copy in my big green bag, and Cinder Edna. Have read them over and over to my grandchildren. For the girls to have a strong role model. For the boys to learn how to look for a strong female. Namaste.

"Blueberries for Sal"

By Kathy Stinson on Friday, March 05, 2010

Delighted to see one of my books on your list, Cathy, especially as the others sound so interesting. I feel Red is Best is in good company there. I'm sure that Robert McCloskey didn't plan on conveying the message that we are all alike deep down, no matter how different we may appear to be on the outside, but that's something I take from it. It's been a favourite book of mine since I was a child - a LONG time ago.

"Kathy Stinson!"

By Cathy on Friday, March 05, 2010

Kathy - what an honor to see your comment here. Your book has been such a big part of our life - so fun to say "thank you" directly! My oldest daughter loved Blueberries for Sal. We had to buy two copies because she would go to bed with it and the pages would fall out. It definitely has a good message and a good vibe because she insisted on sleeping with it. Made her feel good....sounds like something Kelly would do!!

"The One, The Only Magnificent Me! by Dan Haseltine"

By Angela Iverson, CYEDC ParentXperience on Wednesday, March 10, 2010

This book is about a little boy who wishes he is someone other than himself. He imagines that he is this "creature" with features of various real life animals. In his mind, this creature would be so fantastic that people would accept him, love him, and admire him for it. His fantasy is broken when he realizes that this magnificent "creature" could not be, but then his mother steps in and gives him the encouragement that he truly needs. She goes on to tell him that he is perfect and magnificent just the way he is. This book is great for me and my son because he has a physical disability. I explain to him that he doesn't need to wish that he is "normal" because he is he is unique and magnificent in his own way.

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