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Monday, February 01, 2010
Cathy Cassani Adams
The Self-Aware Parent

 

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It's finally back.  Lost has returned for its sixth and final season and the diehard fans, myself included, are more than ready to dive back into the mystery.

In the interest of full disclosure I have to admit that I wasn't in it from the beginning.  There was a time when I didn't believe the hype.

But on a vacation with my husband a few years ago we decided to bring Season 1 of Lost.  It all started with that plane crash - that ridiculously realistic plane crash.  Characters were introduced as they aimlessly walked the beach wondering where they were and why they were alive.

2110_lostThis has been the enduring question for the last five seasons.  And really, isn't this the question of all people?  Who am I?  Why am I here?  What is the purpose?  That is the theme of Lost and that's what keeps me coming back.

It's no surprise that I fell in love with a character named John Locke.  Not because of his good looks, but because of his strong faith.  Locke believes that there is a destiny to fulfill, a reason for the group, a higher purpose for the whole thing.  He is a layered character and his choices are not always good (sometimes they are downright disturbing), but I am inevitably drawn to him.

Locke is my favorite, but Jack is not far behind.  Jack is a man of science, and he uses his mind to lead and solve problems.  Jack is a deeply tortured character - his lack of belief keeps him out of his heart and inside his head which demonstrates his smarts, but keeps him from truly understanding people or having substantial relationships.

Locke and Jack have continually battled for leadership and their sharp contrast results in the castaways choosing sides.  If they could just integrate each other's beliefs, trust inner wisdom while knowing the value of the mind, it would result in a leader that was really worth following.  But I know, it's a show, so I digress…

Lost is about puzzles, time travel, relationships, and good vs. evil with an occasional smoke monster or polar bear thrown in.  It would be difficult to write about every aspect or even discuss every aspect of this show.  Viewers are constantly challenged to get their arms around the ever expanding details.

But that's what I love.  I don't watch much television, but when I do, it's usually something that doesn't require work.  It's an old episode of Friends, an occasional reality show or my nightly Daily Show fix.  As a mother of three my mind is already mushy at the end of the day.  I usually don't have the stamina to take on anything difficult.

But I am willing to work for Lost.  I am ready to watch with my TiVo remote close by so I can pause and rewind when necessary (to catch clues that Lost fans refer to as "easter eggs").  I am ready to have long discussions with my husband about the meaning of people, their choices, and what that big foot on the island actually represents.

I am ready to bond with people I hardly know about these complex characters, especially Jacob, who finally made an appearance last season.  I feel like we are talking about something greater than a show.  It stretches us to look at what we believe and what we think is important.  It asks us to be open minded, forgiving, and sometimes just suspend what we might otherwise believe for an hour.

I am ready to feel powerful emotion, like when Charlie knowingly gave up his life, or when Desmond and Penny were finally reunited (the episode with Desmond called The Constant is still my favorite), and when Juliet so eloquently expresses her love for  Sawyer (otherwise known as LaFleur) as she falls down that fateful hole.

Lost makes me cry and it makes me think.  It has tested my patience and surprised me.  It has opened up conversations about purpose, destiny and the meaning of life.  In a media world based on shallow reality characters who want instant fame for no reason, Lost's depth is a breath of fresh air.

So I am ready to get back to work.  I am ready to revisit those questions about faith and science and bring all the pieces back together. I am ready to expand my thinking and hopefully get some answers.

Not to mention that my husband has been traveling for almost a week so my mushy parenting brain is in desperate need of a workout.

 

Are you excited for Lost, too?  Please post a comment and tell us why.

 

Cathy Adams is a certified parenting coach, yoga instructor and mother to three girls.

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Contact Cathy at cathycadams@sbcglobal.com

 
We are all Lost

By Kelly Porter on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

My whole family watches Lost together every week. Thankfully all our children are now old enough to watch most of it with us. We have had many rousing dinner discussions about the numbers, our ability to change our destiny, fate, and good versus evil. My favorite thing about the show is that the characters are neither all good, nor all bad. John Locke, our hero, now has the "black smoke" indwelling in his deceased body. Jack tries to be a good man, but often makes snap judgments and decisions that cause others to be hurt or die. Kate, is a killer, yet a loyal friend and caring mother to Aaron. Sawyer,, the conman, is human, damaged, and deeply loving. My older children are interested in this idea of good and evil lurking behind all human faces when they have been raised with the idea of "be good" as a daily staple. It makes for intense family discussion. Teenagers can be very philosophical! Without watching this show together, my husband and I would never have discovered that our children discuss these same subjects with their friends at school. It is so wonderful to have a connection with older children where my husband and I do not feel like the ones who are "LOST!"

LAX

By Han on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

The two hour episode was amazing. Can't wait for the next 17. What's do you think is up with up with Sayid?

I totally understand

By Cathy on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Dan - there were many times that I contemplated leaving the island, too - especially the beginning of last season with the repetitive time travel episodes (just tell us what is going on!) - but Lost always finds a way to bring me back. When you get an answer or an ending to a chapter, you really feel like you "earned" it. Thanks for your comment!

Just the opposite

By Dan Haley on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

I was into Lost from the very first episode. Loved the complexity, the characters, the many forces at work. However unlike you, though I also suffer from mushy parent brain, I've drifted off the island as the years have passed. It seemed like too much to sort out at the end of a long day. But your lovely appraisal of the show makes me contemplate trying to reconnect for the last season.

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