The noise level of children is so very subjective. I would be sensitive to the neighbor and try to resolve the issue. If I felt they were being spiteful, there wouldn't be much I could do. I can't control other people's behavior, so I would live with whatever they were doing to make our lives unpleasant and be assertive in my responses.
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