I would absolutely step in in this situation and would expect other parents to do the same with my child. While I would never shout or scream at another person's child, I would talk with the child and try to correct the situation. Now, if it is a playful aggression and a case of "boys will be boys," then keep an eye on it, but no reason to overreact.
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