I honesty can say I have no idea if I would step in. I probably would do the teacher thing and ask the child, "Would you like it if someone did that to you?" and look into it. Nowadays you don't know if a parent would take something the wrong way and hurt you or your child. There are a lot of crazy people out there.
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