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tamaraPosted by Tamara O.



Just when you think you have the parenting thing nailed, an innocent sleepover with five 10-year-old girls slaps you wide awake.

After a movie and pizza recently, my daughter surprised her pals with cans of colorful silly string. Outside they went, giddy, laughing, spraying each other. Out of the blue, one decided she'd had enough because after all, as she yelled, "I just straightened my hair." The tiny wisp of a girl turned Brian Urlacher and threw a can-wielding pal to the ground in a sobbing heap. I couldn't believe my eyes. With boys, I'd almost expect some aggressive behavior. But girls? Weren't they all sweet Disney princesses just last year for Halloween?

Frankly, I didn't know what to do, but knew all the girls were waiting for me to do something. Of course I immediately picked up the crying girl and calmed her. Then I told "Urlacher" she'd have to go home because we just don't hurt our friends. "I have anger issues," she responded as I combed silly string out of her hair.

As the long hours passed until her parents returned my calls, the tension slowly ebbed. Before long, the girls were in a circle on the living room floor painting their finger nails.

Just who said the toddler years were so terrible?

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In the Princess and preschool phase

By Kim on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

I am trying to hold on to every moment because whenever things are "bad" I flash forward to 10 years from now and put it in perspective.

Dan the publisher

By Dan Haley on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Tamara, you've got the pre-teen girl set. I've got the full-throttled 13-year-old versions at our house. Yikes. Total, perpetual drama. In person. On Facebook. By text. Happy, supportive, inclusiveness can vanish in an instant. A wonderful and godawful time of life. Dan

SleeplessOvers

By Sleepless Dad on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Who decided to call these festive occasions "sleepovers" ? The secret or not so secret diaries of experienced parents might reveal that very little sleeping occurs on these overnight extravaganzas, especially for for us parents. Sleepovers can be a blast! It's dealing with the sleep deprived darlings the next afternoon that is sooo much more fun.

So true!

By harried mom on Tuesday, November 13, 2012

I no longer allow sleepovers for my kids. Too much drama, too many tears. I have told them they can resume sleepovers at 16.

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