Happy shopping and wish me luck
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Posted by Karen S.
I'm trying to stay ahead of holiday shopping for my three grandsons. I pick things up here and there and stash them away. As it gets closer to Christmas I analyze what I have left to buy and I find myself counting each boy's gift pile, trying to keep them as even as possible.
That must be a hold over from having four siblings and measuring "fairness" on Christmas mornings. It's sure not the message I want to give to the little guys, but even my daughter admits that she eyed her brother's pile of presents and measured it against her own. I am considering getting a pretty pricey Wii game bundle for the older two, but then their little brother's stash will look much heavier than theirs. As much as I hate it, that concerns me. Will they understand that they have less to unwrap because the cost was much greater?
Why did I think this was over when my children moved into adulthood? Truth be told, I still count their packages!
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Totally makes me crazy
By Tamara O'Shaughnessy on Tuesday, November 13, 2012
I am so glad I'm not the only parent who struggles with this (truthfully I learned it from my mom). I am constantly counting presents even as late as Christmas Eve to make sure everyone gets a fair share. Let me tell you, I've ended up with some junk presents that clutter the house after a day. Every year I claim I'm not going to do it again, but every year, I'm counting. I'd be interested to hear from other parents on how they handle gifts with siblings. Happy Thanksgiving, Happy Black Friday.