At the risk of sacrificing any future job offers from Apple or
Intel, I am ready to admit a shameful secret. Despite an era of
space-age phones, talking cars and teenage texters, I am
practically a dinosaur. I read paper books. I get my directions
from maps. I pay bills using envelopes and stamps.
Technology and I are pretty much oil and vinegar. Fire and
gasoline. Popeye and Bluto.
The irony of this does not escape me. I once managed a corporate
website and intranet. Back then, I lived in chronic fear of
deleting critical HTML code that would crash my company's entire
system. Inordinate amounts of information and access to secure
files rested on me: a virtual Daffy Duck of electronics.
It was as though Gorbachev, in the midst of the Cold War,
selected a simple lackey to oversee the nuclear warheads. I was
that lackey. To this day, I am still relieved I didn't accidentally
When our first son was born, my husband brought home a baby
monitor. I was not pleased.
"What is ALL this?" I demanded as he plugged the thing into the
"A monitor. So we can hear Danny when he cries."
"We live in a CONDO, Joe. I can hear when our neighbors EAT
In a typical demonstration of why I hate technology, the baby
monitor never worked. We picked up all sorts of radio stations and
police transmissions, but not a single peep from our newborn.
As the kids got older, my agitation with technology only
worsened as I tried to make sense of Leapsters and the Nintendo DS.
I stubbornly refused to upgrade my old flip phone until the cell
phone provider wrote to say they were discontinuing all leases and
equipment for "antiquated" devices. The letter was made out to me,
the sole vestige of Flip Phone Model #1.
I am antiquated and discontinued.
Yet somehow over the last few years, there has been a wondrous
My kids are really good at this stuff.
Whether they learned it from babysitters with Angry Birds or
schools with Smart Boards, my sons know more about technology than
I do. They walk me through recording shows on the DVR. They help me
text. They even update my iPod (which until last month still had
the same 14 songs it came with when I first received it as a
Some mothers dream of having children who grow up to be doctors
I want my own in-house IT Department.
Marianne is mother of three sons and the wife of a southside Irish fireman. She has learned that sometimes you're just too dumb to know what makes you happy. She blogs regularly at We Band of Mothers (webandofmothers.com) and curses with even greater frequency. Her material is written for the imperfect, the imprudent, and the impatient mothers who know that all this stuff is really very funny if you just give it a minute.
See more of Marianne's stories here.
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